{"content":{"sharePage":{"page":0,"digests":[{"id":"61963958","dateCreated":"1366389360","smartDate":"Apr 19, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"Chsanchez808","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/Chsanchez808","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61963958"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"Honestly, I think that the idea of having a Facebook page for prom is a great way for girls to communicate with others for advice on dresses and to let them know that their dress is this or that. On the other hand, from reading this article my perspective has changed because of how serious a prom dress has become. Since our Senior prom was last week Saturday, I know how it feels to have a unique dress for that special night. So now I'm not really sure if I'm for or agaisnt a Facebook page because before prom I didn't really use the page. Maybe once or twice, but I never posted a picture. Well, I think this is a great discussion because this small idea of how girls are competitive and aggressive when it comes to prom dresses brings together many different topics like gender roles and stereotypes.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61955128","dateCreated":"1366348406","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"krcarson","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/krcarson","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61955128"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"Personally, I find the fights, tension, and issues that result from matching\/similar prom dresses completely ridiculous. There's other much more important things going on in the world than one matching garment, so I have to wonder why people make such a big deal over one dress. It may be a "special night" for them and they want to be "unique and special" in their "perfect dress," but does that mean you have to deny someone else the oppurtunity to share the same experience as you? No. It's really not a big deal to wear the same dress as someone. Unless they're your best friend and you'll be taking millions of pictures with them on prom night, no one will even end up caring after it's over. Prom is one night, but people are willing to ruin their life reputations just because they are afraid to not look as good as the other person or be challenged\/compared. If people were as confident in themselves as they appear on Facebook, then they wouldn't be afraid to wear the same dress as someone on prom night. Dress drama is completely ridiculous.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61949152","dateCreated":"1366315113","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"amkimura","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/amkimura","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61949152"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Amy's response","description":"I think prom dress pages do more good then harm. Prom dress pages actually prevent violent disputes from breaking out in person, and resolve dress problems online ahead of time. Some remarks and comments girls make about their dresses can be taken as exaggerating and should not be taken seriously. I actually appreciate prom dress pages because no one wants to have the same dress as another girl. I do it think boys can relate to this because they do not wear unique clothes at prom. It is kind of unfair girls are expected to look gorgeous on prom night with their hair and make up done and a beautiful gown to go with it, while boys just wear a suit or tux. However, I like getting made up anyways, I just find it weird girls need to do so much more then boys for prom.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61948376","dateCreated":"1366312311","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"kechoy","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/kechoy","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61948376"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"The Facebook page for prom dresses is a common thing now in high schools for example IOLANI has had several of these prom dress pages over the last few years. As someone who posted a photo of my dress on this page I understand why girls make such viscous comment however I also believe it is excessive and unnecessary. The idea of the Facebook page is so that people do not end up with the same dress so I do not see the necessity to add such a gruel comment. I hope girls remember that before even Facebook, which is not that long ago, girls attended proms hoping someone would not have the same dress; therefore the Facebook page is a privilege.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61947550","dateCreated":"1366309969","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"rjkimura44","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/rjkimura44","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61947550"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"I found this topic interesting because it's pretty funny how serious girls take these types of stuff. I've heard some girls make a big deal out of other girls getting the same dress and honestly I can see how that's a little awkward but some people take it way too far. I think they are probably afraid of people getting into the discussion of who wore it better which creates tension between the girls.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61945906","dateCreated":"1366306320","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"taranador","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/taranador","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61945906"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"I find this applies well to us teenagers especially since we are in the middle of prom season. I know of incidences where one posted their prom dress and then another girl comments saying that they have the same dress. I don't think that these facebook pages cause drama. If anything, the two people with the same dress are upset. I enjoy having this prom page because it is just a way to avoid repeats of dresses. Overall, the comments\/captions on dresses are positive. People just say "please do not steal" and not to the extent of "I'm going to kill you." Prom is a special night, and you want to be unique. Even stores will log down the dress you have for a certain event and let others know that you have that dress. It would just not be fun if everyone showed up in the same dress.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61936294","dateCreated":"1366273913","smartDate":"Apr 18, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"Mike-E","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/Mike-E","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61936294"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"After reading the entire article and browsing through some of the added pictures, I had a good laugh. I understand that girls want to have a perfect prom night where they are wearing a unique dress and can then stand out, but some girls go to the extreme to try and ensure this. Posting a picture of a chosen dress on a social website to let other people know what you are wearing is perfectly fine, but threatening other girls to not get the same dress is absurd. Any girl can get any dress they feel like. Senior prom was last weekend, and honestly, I only remember the dress my date was wearing and my friend Taylor's dress because it looked like she was getting married.
\nOn a side note, if someone showed up to prom with the same exact tuxedo as me, I would probably ask to take a picture with him because that would be awesome. Girls are more picky with what they wear I guess.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61935662","dateCreated":"1366267743","smartDate":"Apr 17, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"laaurenh","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/laaurenh","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61935662"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"This article is interesting because people have recently been posting their dresses on the junior prom page. I think this page is a positive thing overall because on a night like prom no one really wants to have the same exact dress as someone else. On the junior prom page people never make threatening comments. At most there will be a compliment about the dress. I think the threatening comments in the article ruin the happy and exciting mood of prom. People are so immature and dramatic about the smallest things. If two people love the same dress then they should both wear it. As my parents used to tell me when I was young, copying is the greatest form of flattery.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61935524","dateCreated":"1366266072","smartDate":"Apr 17, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"daushiji","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/daushiji","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61935524"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response ","description":"This article was extremely relevant considering senior prom was this past weekend and junior prom is right around the corner. Much like the girls in the article I also posted a picture of my dress in a facebook group that was designed for this very purpose. I believe it's an affective use of today's technology. On a special night like prom, everyone want to feel unique, and having the same dress as someone kind of puts a damper on that idea. Showing up with the same dress as someone means that the two of you will be compared, and on a night where you want to stand out its kind of disappointing. However, it is definitely not going to ruin the whole experience. While reading the article I thought that some of the things that girls were posted on facebook seemed to be inappropriate. Claiming a dress is one thing, but are the threatening remarks really necessary? If someone has the same dress it's not the end of the world, and I'm sure that prom would be just as much fun. However, this article makes it seem as if these class less comments are a normal occurrence, which isn't the case. In the facebook group that I was apart of there were no such comments. Everyone was cordial and appropriate. Overall, I believe that posting a prom dressed online is a good idea but there are certain people that need to learn how to be tasteful about it.","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]},{"id":"61935488","dateCreated":"1366265690","smartDate":"Apr 17, 2013","userCreated":{"username":"lankylando","url":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/user\/view\/lankylando","imageUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikispaces.com\/i\/user_none_lg.jpg"},"monitored":false,"locked":false,"links":{"self":"https:\/\/iolaniwomenlit.wikispaces.com\/share\/view\/61935488"},"dateDigested":1532140919,"startDate":null,"sharedType":"discussion","title":"Response","description":"This is an interesting topic I never really thought about before. Since I am a guy I really don't know the stuff that happens behind the scenes. I already kind of knew about the drama of girls and their dresses but I never knew it was such a big issue. I guess the facebook page is good because it prevents drama from occuring on prom night. In my opinion, I think a girl should wear whatever dress she wants to wear, but hey what do I know I'm just a guy...","replyPages":[{"page":0,"digests":[],"more":0}]}],"more":false},"comments":[]},"http":{"code":200,"status":"OK"},"redirectUrl":null,"javascript":null,"notices":{"warning":[],"error":[],"info":[],"success":[]}}